The PACE model

The PACE model developed by Dr. Daniel Hughes is a therapeutic approach primarily used in helping children with trauma, attachment issues, or who are in foster care or adopted. PACE stands for Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy, and these are the key elements of the approach. Here's a brief overview of each component:

1. Playfulness: This involves bringing a light, joyful attitude to interactions. It's not about making jokes or playing games necessarily, but about being open, flexible, and ready to engage in a way that’s not overly serious or heavy. It helps create a relaxed environment where the child feels safe and free to express themselves.

2. Acceptance: This component is about accepting the child wholly, including all their feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. This doesn’t mean condoning inappropriate or harmful behavior, but understanding that such behavior is a communication of underlying needs or trauma. Acceptance helps the child feel secure and understood.

3. Curiosity: Curiosity in this context means being genuinely interested in understanding the child's perspective and experiences without judgment. This approach encourages open questions and active listening, helping the caregiver understand the motivations and feelings behind the child's behavior.

4. Empathy: This involves empathizing with the child's experiences and emotions, showing them that their feelings are understood and shared. Empathy helps in building a deeper emotional connection and makes the child feel valued and cared for.

The PACE approach is beneficial because it fosters trust and security in the child-caregiver relationship, which is crucial for children who have experienced trauma or disrupted attachments. By using PACE, caregivers can help these children heal, develop healthier relationships, and build a stronger sense of self-worth.

Tim HJ Rogers
ICF Trained Coach AMPG Change Practitioner and Mediation Practitioner
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