You’ve probably heard it more times than you can count. “You’re the average of the five people spend the most time with,” a quote attributed most often to motivational speaker Jim Rohn. There’s also the “show me your friends and I’ll show you your future” derivative.
They say you’re not supposed to judge a book by its cover, but can you judge people by their books. They’re practically taking a piece of their soul and waving it in front of you like a gigantic, colorful flag. It would be rude not to read something into what they’re reading. However, if you judge a person based on what they read, you have determined who and what they are based on your own prejudices about what people would read a certain type of book.
What do you think? Below is what I have read over the last 18 months. (The * means paper-book, the rest are audiobooks) On the basis of this list what do YOU recommend I should read in 2020?
BOOKS ABOUT PEOPLE AND PERSONALITY
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: Techniques for Retraining Your Brain
- Yes! 50 Secrets from the Science of Persuasion
- The Good Psychopath's Guide to Success
- Winners: And How They Succeed
- Flipnosis
- The 10X Rule: The Only Difference Between Success and Failure
- *The Idiot Brain
- *Thinking fast and slow
- *How the mind works
- *Humble enquiry
- *Sapiens
BOOKS ABOUT SOCIAL CHANGE AND HISTORY
- Out of the Wreckage: A New Politics for an Age of Crisis
- WTF?: What have we done? Why did it happen? How do we take back control?
- Inside Story: Politics, Intrigue and Treachery from Thatcher to Brexit
- The Secret Barrister
- The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
- Misbehaving: The Making of Behavioral Economics
- The Cold War: A World History
- The Great Economists: How Their Ideas Can Help Us Today
- Bad Blood
- Hitch-22: A Memoir
- A History of Russia: From Peter the Great to Gorbachev
- Understanding Power: The Indispensable Chomsky
- Stalin: New Biography of a Dictator
- *1984
- *Animal Farm
- *History of world war 2
- *The undoing project
- *Life 3.0
- *How to fix the future
- *Utopia for realists
- *The great economists
- *Karl Marx and unreason
- *This is going to hurt (Adam Kay)
BUSINESS BOOKS
- War and Peace and IT: Business Leadership, Technology, and Success in the Digital Age
- A Seat at the Table: IT Leadership in the Age of Agility
- The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups
- Product Mastery: From Good to Great Product Ownership
- Scrum Mastery: From Good to Great Servant-Leadership
- Scrum: The art of doing twice the work in half the time
- Skin in the Game: Hidden Asymmetries in Daily Life
- Principles: Life and Work
- Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die
- Key Person of Influence: The Five-Step Method to Become One of the Most Highly Valued and Highly Paid People in Your Industry
- The DevOps Handbook: How to Create World-Class Agility, Reliability, and Security in Technology Organizations
- The Toyota Way to Lean Leadership: Achieving and Sustaining Excellence Through Leadership Development
- Blue Ocean Strategy: How to Create Uncontested Market Space and Make Competition Irrelevant
- Thinking in Systems: A Primer
- Critical Chain: Project Management and the Theory of Constraints
- Conspiracy: Peter Thiel, Hulk Hogan, Gawker, and the Anatomy of Intrigue
- The Phoenix Project: A Novel about IT, DevOps, and Helping Your Business Win 5th Anniversary Edition
- Summary of Algorithms to Live By by Brian Christian and Tom Griffiths
- Narconomics: How to Run a Drug Cartel
- Lean Mastery Collection: 8 Manuscripts: Lean Six Sigma, Lean Startup, Lean Enterprise, Lean Analytics, Agile Project Management, Kanban, Scrum, Kaizen
- *Liars poker
- *Bad pharma
- *Insecurity
- Business Adventures: Twelve Classic Tales from the World of Wall Street
- The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks Than Others Do in 12 Months
- The Goal: A Process of Ongoing Improvement - 30th Anniversary Edition